Papa (justin) visits through the front door glass

What’s been the biggest challenge you’ve noticed due to Covid-19, and How is your family coping?

Share your experience in the comment section below.

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I think the hardest part for me iS not being able to see family. Justin has been away from us for 15 days (11 of those he has Spent in self-quaraNtine). It’s the longest we have been away from each other since we started dating 9 years ago and march 12th was the first night justin Had been away from hunter.

I also had plans to visit with multiple family members over several days and then I was advised to self-quarantine, so of course the plans were cancelled. I don’t regret the decision, because obviously everyone’s health is more important. I’m thankful for technology today, as it’s allowed us to stay relatively in touch, but it’s not quite the same. I’m looking forward to future visits and hugs for sure.

Another thing I’ve struggled with is not having any help at all with Hunter. I’ve been lucky since hUnter was born to have justin home a lot and other loved ones around almost constantly to help out. even if that just meaNt someone holding him for a Short while so I cOuld grab a shower, go to the bathroom, make a coffee, sleep a little longer, etc.

“The calm after the storm” — “The calm ***after*** the storm”

I find it hard to accept that I’m not able to be as productive while I’m here alone with Hunter. Things like cleaning and sewing are being put on the back burner. I’m doing the Bare minimum of cleaning on a day-to-day basis, but a deep clean is just not possible. Then there’s sewing. Sure, I could start sewing and deal with being interrupted by the baby every few minutes, or I could just let him cry for a bit and squeeze a few minutes of ironing in, as some have suggested. The thing is, I wouldn’t be enjoying it, and if I’m being completely honest, it will stress me out and make me feel anxious. I wouldn’t be as productive and I would also run the risk of making mistakes due to being distracted by starting and stopping every few minutes. So I ask myself - what’s the point? I will just wait until I have an extra set of hands in the house so I can give my full attention to it.

Many people are feeling very alone right now, but for me it’s different. I am never truly alone. I wouldn’t mind some time alone to be honest with you. I have a baby who relies on me and is attached to me for most of the day. Hunter is a very happy and easy going baby but he still cries and whines. Just like any baby, he still has his fussy moments. So while I know I have it easier than many, I still struggle at times. Then there’s Tiny. Tiny follows me so closely that most times I worry I’ll either step on her or I will trip over her. Since she’s an older dog (15 years old this year!) she requires a bit more attention at times. She needs to be carried uP and down the stairs, which ISN'T easy while carrying a baby. She is constantly needing to go outside, even if she just came in two minutes ago. She whines for my attention all the time and paces back and forth, which in turn makes me feel anxious. So needless to say I’ve been feeling pulled in all directions to give my attention to both of them.

What aM i doing to cope?

I am trying to stay connectEd with loved ones through texting, calling and video chats.

faceTiming with “Glamma” on her birthday

i am a huge lover of music and I often feel lost if I don’t have some kind of music playing in the background. I find that it helps with whatever I need in that moment - to get motivated, to calm down, to cheer up, even if it helps me not get lost in the silence. Also, it helps Hunter sleep longer as it muffles any sound I make that may wake him.

My first batch of groceries was dropped off by a family member on the first day of my quarantine and since then I have been able to have groceries delivered, when needed. I’ve ordered my vitamins for delivery, and realized that most other items can wait and aren’t a necessity.

My first order through the grocery delivery service, instacart

i don’t always care to go out, so that hasn’t been a huge deal. I manage to get out for a walk each day and it helps. I think Tiny would love to go for walks all day long some days. I try to go at a time where not many people are out and I cross the street or change direction if needed to make sure we stay far away from others. It’s obvious that Hunter loves the fresh air and he is mesmerized when he hears birds singing.

I usually time our walks Around thE sunset

We are doing our best to get through this and I personally find it helps to stay grounded by remembering that many still have to go to work and risk their health. Many are risking their family’s health and that must add stress. those who are already sick are battling sOmething we are lucky enough not to know. We have our health. We have a safe place to be. We have the resources to get through this without wondering how we will come up with our next meal. When I think of it like that, my worries seem so trivial. Although I don’t discount my feelings and the Challenges I’m facing some days, it helps me not feel buried in them.

Let’s all stay safe out there and let’s stay connected so we can all support each other through these crazy times.
Melissa ✌️❤️✨

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